Many dates, many spankings

That was followed by many 'dates' that usually involved at some point, me being naked over her lap such as 

and 

which certainly stung, as she knew how to spank hard with her hand, but also aroused me .. AND her, and would invariably lead to the bedroom.

We began talking about marriage.

And she said, "Before I can marry you ... well, I've given you some fun spankings, fun for both of us, but I would require we enter a Female-Led Domestic Discipline agreement."
"Um, what would that look like?"
"Give me time to put something together in writing, and we'll talk about it again ...tomorrow."
"Um, okay."