Some spankings are more intense than others

Like, when she tells me to strip and get on the bed FDAU

Daily

On a daily basis,  this occurs:

Masturbation NOT allowed

She told me on our wedding day, she would not tolerate masturbation on my part, and she often repeats the message on my bare bottom:

Daily ...

Always naked for his full attention

It didn't matter if friends were visiting us, or we were visiting her friends, 
  she loved to talk about spanking me, and demonstrating:

Stripped and spanked OTK in a friend's house kitchen.

One time, at a friend's house, she looked at me sternly and said, "Follow me into the kitchen."
There, she said, "Get naked." 
Then I saw the big brush in her hand.
I stripped, and went over her lap.

It didn't take long for her friends to come in, to see what all the noise was, and they stood and watched the whole painful session.

Protocol, every work day for a month

Shortly after we returned from our short honeymoon, the first of a new month was fast approaching.
She said to me, "I want you to get accustomed to our DD arrangement. With that in mind, listen carefully: 
 Starting on the 1st, every day that you go to work, when you return from work, you will immediately go to the bedroom, strip, take a short shower, no longer than ten minutes, then go to the bedroom and get on the bed, FDAU like I've showed you, and simply wait there for me to come in, and give further instructions, or most likely, beat your bottom. Continuing, you will simply do as your told."
"Yes,     Ma'am," I said quietly. 
So day 1, and each following workday, looked like this:

My time waiting there for her varied widely from fifteen minutes to an hour ...  I learned how to pass the time in meditation....
Then she finally would come in and 

and after she beat my bottom til I was sobbing or close to it, she would send me to stand against the wall ...

and leave me standing there as long as it suited her.
So I learned 'meditation while standing'.