That was followed by many 'dates' that usually involved at some point, me being naked over her lap such as
and
which certainly stung, as she knew how to spank hard with her hand, but also aroused me .. AND her, and would invariably lead to the bedroom.
We began talking about marriage.
And she said, "Before I can marry you ... well, I've given you some fun spankings, fun for both of us, but I would require we enter a Female-Led Domestic Discipline agreement."
"Um, what would that look like?"
"Give me time to put something together in writing, and we'll talk about it again ...tomorrow."
"Um, okay."
I'd been dating a woman, Jill, about three weeks.
Jill was about seven years older than me, same height as me, and a bit heavier and broader than me.
After a couple of weeks, our dates ended in the bedroom, hers or mine, in a rapid removal of clothes as we climbed onto the bed.
One such date started after I arrived at her place, in the bedroom ... not planned to go that way, but it happened quickly.
Afterwards ... I got up to pee, and as I was walking to the bathroom, she said, "Stop!"
I stopped and turned around.
She said, "No no, turn around again."
I did, and stood still.
"Wiggle your hips back and forth."
I did
"I just love your ... ass."
"Thanks," I said, "May I continue?"
"Sure."
"Thanks again."
I peed, and started to return, when she said, "Turn around again..."
I did
"Really gets me hot," she said.
"Hmmm... what do you like so much about my bottom?"
"Yours is ... really nice, but its male bottoms in general that I'm fond of."
"Really? Wonder why that is..."
"Because ... I like to spank them."
My heart stopped. Magic words.
"You ... like ... to spank 'em?"
"Uh huh," she said, grinning.
"How did that interest come to be?"
"With my first husband... who early on, expressed an interest in being spanked... so I did, and discovered, I really enjoy it. I gave him frequent spankings throughout our marriage."
"And um will that affect us?"
"I've been waiting for the right time to broach the subject, and now the subject has been broached. How do you fill about it?"
"I .. could .. maybe .. be into it?"
"Oh, would you care to try?"
I blushed, "Yeah, okay."
She got out of bed, and sat on a chair next to the bed, and pulled me over her lap and
I yelped and moaned at each hard slap of her hand to my bare bottom.
After fifteen minutes, she stopped and pushed me to my feet.
I stood, rubbing my bottom, and she said, "How was that?"
The swelling in my penis told the tale, and we got back into bed.
I have so enjoyed maintaining this blog.
For some, this would represent their fantasy.
For me, it's been REAL. I married into a Dominant Wife-submissive husband, Female Led Relationship, with Domestic Discipline...
But, due to physical constraints...
Mostly, what seems to be (not 100% diagnosed yet)a duodenal ulcer, which is painful to some greater or lesser degree, nearly every moment of my waking hours...
We have chosen to put the 'BDSM' aspect of our relationship into a box, so to speak, and live a vanilla husband-wife lifestyle, until I am healthy enough to enjoy it.
Our finances are in ... BAD .. shape, which has meant, I've taken up extra work to fill in my hours off from my primary job.
Management at my primary job has given me notification ... after 2 1/4 years... to lay off the adult sites that I've been ...um.. doing research on, via the company's broadband, at work.
So, until further notice, this blog is on hiatus.
from 02.14.14
